Why I have two kids with different fathers – Sidi addresses online trolling

Popular Nollywood actress Kemisola Apesin, known professionally as Sidi or Kemity, has broken her silence over criticism sparked by her personal life, specifically, having two children by different fathers.

In a candid response to trolls, Kemity disclosed her teenage pregnancy and the challenges she faced, revealing an unexpected side of her journey into womanhood.

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Sidi speaks out

In a recent social media post shared via Daily Post Nigeria, the actress responded to trolls questioning her decisions.

Sidi openly stated that she became pregnant while still in secondary school, adding that the circumstances forced her to leave school prematurely and shoulder adult responsibilities too early.

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She said the scrutiny intensified after she became a mother, with critics targeting her family life. Instead of retreating, Kemity chose to confront the backlash head-on, “I got pregnant as a teenager in secondary school…”

She said, “I was about to sit for my SSCE exam when I got pregnant. My mother insisted that I must continue my education before I could marry the man who got me pregnant.

“The father of my first child was killed in a Nigeria hotel after he returned from Malaysia. He didn’t inform me or anyone when he came back to Nigeria. I just received a call that he was found dead and when we got to the scene, we only saw 300 dollars with him. We believed the money he returned with was stolen before we got there. That is how I became a widow.

“I was trolled for having two children for different fathers. People don’t really know how it happened. It is not my wish or intentions to leave my husband.

“I met the father of my second child when I was doing computer training. I had a court wedding with him, but we started having misunderstanding over his extra marital affairs after I got pregnant for him. I later left him when he told me that his Alfa told him that he cannot be successful except he separates from me,” she narrated.

Her full statement has resonated with many Nigerians, opening discussions on the pressures faced by young women in similar situations.

Standing against trolls & negative narratives

Kemity didn’t mince words when addressing social media critics. She stressed that having children with different fathers doesn’t equate to failure or irresponsibility.

She emphasised that she had made informed choices and was determined to raise her children well despite the judgments.

Her approach marks a shift from the shame-driven narrative that’s often forced upon women in the public eye. Many fans have since rallied behind her, applauding her honesty and courage to share a part of her life that’s been scrutinised and sensationalised.

The stakes: Teenage pregnancy & societal expectations

Kemity’s confession exposes a critical gap in Nigerian society: teenage pregnancy and the stigma attached to single motherhood. Figures from organisations like UNICEF and the Nigerian CDC show that one in five girls aged 15–19 in Nigeria becomes pregnant before 20, often resulting in interrupted education and limited opportunities.

By sharing her story, Sidi adds a human face to statistical data, turning abstract issues into her personal journey. Through her voice, the public is invited to view teen motherhood and complex family situations with empathy rather than condemnation.

Kemity’s outspokenness aligns with a growing trend among progressive Nigerian celebrities and influencers who challenge outdated stereotypes, including Toke Makinwa and Tiwa Savage, who have also faced scrutiny over their personal lives and choices.